Some very exciting news to share today . . .
We made a movie!
And it’s not just any film . . . it’s a romantic comedy special that will transform your love life while you watch it.
We’ve gathered the very best moments from my last live tour to create The Love Myths: a 90-minute movie that’s been years in the making, and we’ve now set a date for its exclusive premiere and live Q&A next month.
This is an event you can’t miss, and in today’s video, I give you all the details on how you can join me.
A couple years ago, I did a live tour.
Many of you have been asking me when I’m going to do my next live tour, and there’s nothing on the cards right now, but there were so many people who regretted not coming out to that tour when it happened.
What you don’t know is that the entire tour was something that the wonderful Jameson Jordan [my director] shot beautifully in every single location we went to. And we had this big idea at the time: We were going to create a movie on that tour called The Love Myths.
The entire theme of this tour was that there are certain things we’ve always been told about love, about dating, about how to find love, about what love is, that actually don’t serve us. They are myths. And this tour was put in place, not just for me to talk about what those myths are and to bust those myths, but to also talk about what the real truths are.
And the real truths about love and dating, and what gets us results in this part of our lives, are often extremely counterintuitive, which is why we don’t just discover them on our own a lot of the time. It’s why we have to hear them. It’s why we have to change our wiring sometimes to be successful in dating, because everything has been wiring us for failure in this area.
So I went around the world talking about this. It was my favorite tour I have ever done. And Jameson used it to put together an extraordinary 90-minute movie called The Love Myths.
Now originally, we had a deal for this to be screened in movie theaters across America for one very special night. And we were going to tell all of our audience and our fans, “Hey, in your local town, grab a friend, tell someone you know who needs help in their love life. This is going to be coming to a movie theater near you.”
Then Covid hit and cinemas weren’t a thing. When the cinemas closed, we considered going to the streaming services to see who might be interested in doing a one-of-a kind-event—the first of its kind—because who has ever created a romantic comedy special that is actually designed not just to entertain you, but to transform your love life as you watch it?
We decided not to go down that route either, because we wanted to hold it back for a very special moment of our own. Well, we believe we have found that moment.
This December, we are going to be airing a very special premiere screening of The Love Myths movie.
Now, before I tell you how you can access this event, here is a trailer of that movie.
I’ve been called over the course of my career, all sorts of names that I hate, from “the real-life Hitch” to “the Anthony Robbins of dating,” to “Harry Potter with bulbous arms.”
I just want to get a read on the room. How many of you are single? Put your hand up.
Who’s in a relationship? Okay, very good.
Who here is not sure if they’re in a relationship? See, that’s messed up. How can you not be sure? By the end of today, you will be sure, okay? By the end of today, you will be sure.
If you want to hook someone in the first month, there are three things you need: warmth, connection, and tension.
We have a world that’s posing as the most connected world we’ve ever lived in, but there’s no depth and we are lonely, and none of us talk about it because it’s not sexy to talk about.
We have six myths to cover today—the myths and the truths.
Many of us think that when we find the right relationship, everything in our lives is going to change, but the truth is that the battle is won now.
My expectations and my standards were unrealistic because I like physical touch.
So then, why are you with that person?
I don’t know.
Do not waste your time. You’re an expert on women. I’m an expert on the ways women fuck up their lives.
Why is he still around? Why is he still hanging around?
Because you’re still hanging around.
You know what drives me a bit crazy? It’s the narrative of “good and bad guys.” Are there really truly shitty guys? Yes, but there’s a ton of people in the middle who respond to what’s going on in front of them.
And anytime you go into a relationship without your confidence taken care of first, someone has a gun to your head and it’s loaded only by your insecurity.
The strength of a relationship is your ability to survive outside of the relationship. And the great irony is, relationships become better and stronger and more magical when you know you can survive without them.
I’ve had an ex talk about you a lot, so I thought I’d come check you out . . .
Here’s my question to you: Do you want to watch this movie live with me, with my team, with my family, and with people all over the world on December 9 at its premiere? Because that is what we are going to do.
We are doing a worldwide online stream of The Love Myths movie as a special premiere on the 9th of December. We are also going to be doing a special Q&A after the screening of the movie that you can take part in.
So how do you join us for this? Well, here’s the best part: You can get a free ticket to the premiere of The Love Myths movie on the 9th of December, the live Q&A that’s happening after the movie, and forever access to the recordings of the film after the main event, all by pre-ordering a copy of my brand-new book, Love Life.
If you already pre-ordered a copy of the book, you don’t need to do anything. You’re already on the list for the event. I will send you all of the details.
If you haven’t yet pre-ordered your copy of the book, then head over now to LoveMythsMovie.com. That’s where we have this special deal for the movie. That’s where you can grab a copy of your book so that you can be on the guest list for this event.
And of course, we want you there live, because it’s going to be a very special time, all of us being there live watching it together. But if for any reason you can’t see it live on December 9, you’ll still get access to the forever recordings of it after the event just by pre-ordering a copy of the book.
So that’s it. This is a special moment in time for us. This has been years in the making. We are so excited about it. It is the first of its kind, and we are inviting you to take part in it with us.
And not just you. Get your family to pre-order a copy of the book, or someone you know who could benefit from this. Make it a watch party. Make it a special event in December that you join us for.
Thank you for reading. Leave me a comment, let me know if you’re excited, and I will see you next week.